Once permission and approval have been given, the festivities begin. Out come brigades of waiters carrying the first of an eleven course meal of fine Hong Kong style cuisine. It starts with shark fin soup, includes braised noodles (for longevity) and ends with various delicacies. Interspersed during meal time were various "events". In addition to the introduction of the wedding party, first dance,
We "open up" during our first dance. Cindy's
intrically beaded dress (borrowed from friend Celine)
in made of woven Pineapple leaf fiber.
bouquet toss, garter throw, cake cutting
What goes around comes around. Cindy replays
Tom's joke from the first wedding.
and toast from the best man,
During the evening, Cindy would periodically disappear and
return wearing another outfit. All told, she would wear five dresses
during the evening: the western wedding gown, a traditional Filipino wedding
dress made of pineapple fiber (thanks Celine),
a bright red Cantonese style wedding gown, a bright red Mandarin style
dress with long slit up the side of the thigh, and a glamorous iridescent
evening gown. I was a bit of a fashion plate myself, changing from
black sweater with Chinese emblem medalion, to black tie for the greeting
of guests, to red tie and vest for the tea ceremony.
Other events:
Cindy takes the stage to talk about her first
years in America and the influence of her ESL teachers. She shared
lovely stories of each as s/he was called to the front to receive a rose.
On Cindy's right hand side (black dress) is Helena
(mother of the bridesmaids), who became so dear, that Cindy refers
to her as "my American mom".
By popular demand, "the
white Sammy Davis" takes the stage to once again sing "The
Way You Look Tonight". Groomsman Rich Manzell and Best man
Herman provide back up as they did on the reception yacht at the Niagara
Falls wedding.
Cindy dances with Tom's brother Mike while Tom
dances with his Mom. Cindy has changed to the Mandarin style dress.
Cindy's brother Mark takes over the dance floor
and gives lessons to the crowd.
As is the tradition, the entire wedding party moves from table to
table offering and receiving toasts.
To your health and wealth!
Tom decides that it's time to celebrate his heritage
too, donning a kilt. Cindy was posing for the cameras when Tom came
up from behind and surprised her. (Celine, the woman
who first wore the Filipino wedding dress passes by)
Thanks for sharing in our celebration, whether you were there in
person, or in spirit.
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